here some rational reasons :
- people dont know how to tell.they afraid their story will make the listeners feeling boring
- people dont want to burden anyone as they keep telling a listener a story.they actually dont realize that they are burden theirself by keeping this secret/problems/story alone .
- people hate to see fake smile and laugh from the listener .they understand that the listener is trying to take care of their heart by giving a reaction ,however the people dont like it as they prefer a sincere and honest opinion .
- people is doubting the listener.they afraid that the listener will tell the different story to others by adding unnecessary fact and adding the fake one .this will cause the people to get a bad impression by others.
- this last reason connected to the above,people is no longer trust anyone.after what had happened and being betray by the listener.haha
despite on that,
*we shouldn't keep something by our own.it could affect our mentally and physically growth so do our psychology .
* as for the listener,you should hold your trust and keep it nicely.regarding to islam ,pecah amanah adalah tanda orang munafik.susah masuk syurga :)
p/s :i write this based on my experience and my friends but we're more to number four and five .theres nothing to do with someone/something whether it alive or vice versa .tqvm <3
